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We are very blessed. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. My wife and her family are a good example of this. Why do we not talk about Heavenly Mother.
It does not come from common religion or personality or even values; it only comes through mutual self transcendence. It requires a special kind of patience, and I think that the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" has to be something you can relate to. We DO live paycheck to paycheck.